Choices: the needle on the compass of your life

I’ve led patrols—both in training and in combat—through nearly every environment on earth. I developed a deep love and passion for navigation while serving as a U.S. Army Ranger Sergeant. Because of this passion, I’ve guided small boats across open seas with no land in sight. I’ve set the course for military convoys crossing desert floors with no recognizable terrain features. I’ve experienced total darkness in triple-canopy jungles where I couldn’t even see my own hand in front of my face. I’ve navigated miles of untouched snow with no signs of human activity. I’ve steered through dense fog so thick the trees didn’t appear until they were within arm’s reach. And I’ve driven through mazes of back alleys and side streets without a single street sign or map to rely on.

In all these situations and more, I learned the value of one basic piece of Army gear. I had access to the latest soldier technology, but in some of the most remote and rugged places on Earth, satellites and advanced location devices became useless or completely unreliable. When the terrain was isolated and the vegetation so thick that signals couldn’t reach the sky, the only equipment I could rely on to get me where I needed to go was a compass.

The compass became my most vital tool during certain military operations. When I found myself stranded in remote, deserted locations around the world, I would have chosen a compass over water in my canteen or meals in my rucksack, because you can’t fight the enemy if you can’t find the enemy.

Life often feels like a maze of choices, where each decision leads you down a path with its own benefits or consequences. Sometimes a thick fog seems to settle over the entire maze. There have been moments in my life when I couldn’t see around the next corner, let alone down the corridor leading to the next decision. In moments like these, I return to my most trusted tool—my compass.  

Every choice you make isn’t just a fork in the road—it’s a force that shapes the entire trajectory of your life. Your daily decisions determine where you go, what you experience, who you become, and even what’s possible for your future. Here’s how your choices wield transformative power in five vital areas:

They Set Your Direction

Each decision points you down a new path. Choosing to pursue a dream, forgive someone, or step outside your comfort zone can dramatically alter the trajectory of your life. Your direction isn’t shaped by fate or the universe, but by the decisions you wrestle with every day.

They Unlock Opportunities

Opportunities aren’t random—they are revealed when you choose to act, learn, or take a risk. The doors you step through are the direct result of your decision to say “yes” when faced with a challenge or an opportunity. Each choice can open a world that was previously invisible.

They Carry Consequences

Don’t underestimate the ripple effect. Even small choices can trigger chain reactions, leading to successes or setbacks. If you’ve ever wondered, “How did I get here?” the answer lies in your choices. Take responsibility for your decisions, because they will follow you, either for better or for worse.

They Build Momentum

Momentum is the byproduct of consistent action. Good habits, repeated over time, build unstoppable force. Likewise, avoiding difficult decisions can keep you stuck. Habits are simply sets of choices repeated over time. Your choices are the fuel that propels you forward, or keeps you stuck in place.

They Shape Your Identity

Who you are is revealed by what you choose, time and again. Your commitments, sacrifices, and priorities become woven into your very sense of self. In the end, your identity is a tapestry created one decision at a time. When people step back and look at the tapestry of your life, they will see the grand pattern formed by every choice you’ve made.

The Bible is the compass I rely on to make difficult and confusing decisions. It serves as the instruction manual I turn to when I’m uncertain about which path to take next. It has never let me down or led me astray. I am confident that if you also turn to the Bible for guidance in making tough choices, it won’t fail you either.

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